What is one of the most important ideas to understand when it comes to dating and relationships?
It’s a concept called polarity.
Polarity is a simple yet very powerful tool because it can change how a man treats you overnight.
The truth is that women’s dating lives these days are much more difficult than they need to be – because many do not appreciate the importance of polarity.
What is polarity?
The dictionary definition of polarity is “the state of having two opposite or contradictory tendencies, opinions, or aspects.”
So basically, polarity means opposite.
In a relationship, polarity is created between a man and a woman when they exude opposite energies (masculine and feminine). They are attracted to one another because they have opposite energies.
Polarity is essential to any successful relationship because it is what keeps a man and a woman attracted to one another.
Now it sounds simple enough, right? Masculine attracts feminine. But many women don’t truly realize how powerful the concept of polarity is.
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So how exactly do you create polarity?
We are naturally attracted to the opposite gender because they have different patterns of behaviour. They have different energies, body language, desires, physical body, and priorities. Men and women are naturally different.
Isn’t it a beautiful thing?
Think about what attracts you to a man.
If you are like most women then you are probably attracted to men who display masculine traits. They may not even be the best looking men but they have that solid masculine presence – the one that helplessly draws you in and instinctively makes you giggle and bat your eyelashes.
This is why so many women are literally obsessed with Jason Momoa from Game of Thrones – he has a blatant kind of masculinity that makes him intensely attractive. He represents the polar opposite of femininity.
So what are the masculine and feminine qualities that create polarity?
Typical masculine traits are
- Problem solver
- Logical thinker
Masculine behaviour comes naturally to men.
Naturally feminine traits, on the other hand, include
- Intuitive and emotional
You have both masculine and feminine energies within you. Sometimes your masculine energy dominates (for instance at work), while other times your feminine energy takes over.
But if you tune into your heart and pay attention to what you really want as a woman, you will realize that you want to feel admiration and respect towards your man. In fact, I would even say you need it.
You want to feel that you are next to a powerful king who can save you from any storm, rain or fire. You want to feel protected, beautiful, and cherished next to him. If that sounds like you, then you want to be with a masculine man.
That is the kind of relationship that most women thrive in. And it is the kind of feeling you can have when you know how to create polarity between yourself and a man.
Not enough polarity
Why do so many relationships out there suffer? Why is it so hard to attract the masculine man that you actually WANT rather than one that you settle for?
Many women are creating the wrong dynamic in their interactions with men. This is because they are lacking the femininity that men crave in order to feel attraction towards the woman. A lot of women do not understand what male and female roles in a relationship should look like in order to have the most fulfillment possible.
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The reason that you hear stories of men being threatened by women who are more successful than them is not because they are afraid they can’t “handle an independent woman”. No. That is complete B.S. It’s because they lack the necessary feminine traits.
Being next to such a woman makes him feel like less of a man – and men rarely stick around with women who make them feel that way.
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A man MUST feel masculine around his woman. If you are single, chances are that it will be much harder to attract a man if you are showing up in your masculine energy around him. That’s because you are not creating enough polarity between the two of you.
Polarity adds value
Look, the reality is that everything you do either adds to your connection with a man or takes away from it. In every interaction with a man, you need to ask yourself “am I adding value?”
Bringing VALUE to a relationship is about creating feminine-masculine polarity. It is about being the source of feminine energy that inspires your man. This is what creates and maintains attraction.
A woman has to be okay with submitting to a man on a certain level if she wants to create polarity with him and reach new level of intimacy and connection. A High Value, feminine woman has the ability to surrender. This is what makes her strong, not weak.
Don’t get me wrong, a High Value woman is not a woman who is helpless and completely dependent on a guy. She simply understands how to draw on her femininity in order to make her man feel more masculine. That is how she achieves the outcome that she wants in her love life. She takes on her role as a feminine woman, and in turn the man is fulfilled and gives her what she wants in return. A High Value Woman knows how to create a win-win situation. Learn more in the book Major Mistakes that 99% of Women Make With Men…and How to Avoid Them.
Remember this – everything revolves around polarity.
The truth is that polarity is everywhere in nature. This is why feminine and masculine energies are the most potent energies in the world. They create balance and bring order to everything in life.
If you want to create and maintain attraction in the long term, draw out your feminine, High Value Woman and you will attract more High Quality, High Value masculine men. The more you allow your behaviour to be polar opposite to his, the more he will be drawn to you.
Understanding this concept can truly change how men treat you – and yet so many women take it for granted!
Attraction is maintained by the feeling that you get in a relationship when you are with a person – that FEELING is the best part of love. When life is sweeter and more exciting and fulfilling. When everything shines brighter and more beautifully. When you feel like the feminine woman that you are at your very core and your dream man is by your side.
Remember that polarity is all about the exchange of energies. Once you master this concept, not only will the men around you treat you completely differently but you will have a much more fulfilling love life. I promise, lovely! For more on how to attract your dream man into your life, read this article.
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Until next time,